Sunday, 10 February 2013

You're beautiful



Stand up and go to the mirror
And you will see
The most beautiful creation,
It is none other than thee

Smile and set free the birds
Find glee in their wings
For at the sight of freedom,
It’s thy heart that sings

Hold flower in your hands
And smell its scent
Love what was made for you,
Make every minute worth spent

Braid your hair and flip it over
Add beautiful sprinkles
Cuz' you are perfect,
That  bright star that twinkles.

Except for its end




Deeper Deeper into the alleys she ran for her life
The labyrinth of society, the maze of obligations
There seemed everything to it
Except for its end.

Roars of orders, burns from the sun
From the sun she would say.
But they knew of the truth.
There was everything to it
Except for its end


The loud cries, the exasperation
Its magnitude could echo across the mountains.
But she silently wept from the pain
There was everything to it
Except for its end.



Different names. Different terms
Some called it rape. Some termed it abuse
She wanted to hide from the tag
There was everything to it
Except for its end.

Tuesday, 25 December 2012

For they don't know!


Rise woman.
Show they grace
To conquer them
For they don’t know.

Tinkle thy bangles
For they are to know
It ain’t just beauty        
But an eternal glow.

Play it like a Harper
Sing it on a flute
For every man is to know
Thy Melody can bring his mute.

They laugh, they mock
Oh woman so brittle you are they say
For they don’t know
That tenderness is where thy façade lay

Thunder is to kneel
The demon will cower
But the fool of a man
Is blind to thy power
For they don’t know
For they don’t know.

Monday, 17 December 2012

Pushpa Basnet: A wake up call


Pushpa Basnet winning CNN Hero of the Year is a symbolic example that we don’t have to give up on the urban youth. It’s a realization that the ones born with silver spoons are also a part of the New Nepal, envisaged oh so gallantly a little more than a decade ago.
With the array of political transformation going on, where politicians are answering the media, the young cadres are waving black flags and donors are busy distributing their share of money, the role of the urban youth seems to be minimalized if not ignored.
It is as if the ones born with a silver spoon should be left to wining and dining at fancy parties and prepping up to become the next elite. This band of English-speaking people, they either settle down in the United States, come back open a chain of hotels and try and stay as far away as possible from the political scenario.
Hero in every sense of the word!
“The urban youth is so not interested in politics”, I heard one day.
“Well, make it interesting,” I thought to myself.

 The society seems to think that the urban youth is a species of kids who enjoy watching shows in English and drink too much coffee.

Everyday, I sit beside my dad who is engrossed in political talk shows. I try and make sense of it. Then I ask myself- what is there for me in this?”

We are a selfish species and we work on rewards basis.  The government needs to understand that the urban youth is much more pampered and exposed to a lot more information. They are much more difficult to woo.
We are living in the generation that talks freely about sex among them and organizes victory party for the American President Barack Obama. It has become so difficult for this part of the society to fit in because honestly, we don’t know where we belong. We might have less passion for politics than the cadres who devotedly follow their party leaders, but the urban youth should be made equally responsible towards what goes on in the country.

The urban youth eludes dynamism. In the last one year, that I returned, I have met such brilliant people my age, belonging to the same generation. They are a bundle of energy, in one way or the other shaping our society.  This pool of talent and enthusiasm, if contained could turn out to become the hugest asset of Nepal.
Pushpa’s victory is a symbolic one. It is as if this force from above is telling the Nepali youth to carry on. Born in a well-to-do family, she was born with a silver spoon and turned it into a golden opportunity for the whole country. 
This alchemy is one of the best lessons Nepal can learn.  Pushpa Basnet is a wake up call to all the urban youth who think that the “New” Nepal is still old for them.
The outer world, pictures Nepal as a poor country. Our girls are sold and our men move to foreign countries. Western countries come to our aid.
But seeing Pushpa out there, smiling and crying as she accepted the award and then spoke to Anderson Cooper about what it means to her, was the best thing that happened to Nepal in 2012.
Inspiring a generation of potential Heroes, in one-way or the other she symbolizes the untapped potential of the Urban Youth.
She represents the youth of Kathmandu, the youth, which everybody seems to have given up on.
This I think is the greatest victory.

Monday, 26 November 2012

Jane Goodall: The inspiration. The role model. The awesome woman


Dr. Jane Goodall, world-renowned primatologist considered to be the world’s first expert on chimpanzees was on a five-day visit to Nepal from Nov 21- Nov 25. On Friday, Nov. 23 , she appeared at QFX Kumari to address an audience, at the screening of a documentary – Jane’s Journey, based on her life. I attended the screening and it has left me inspired indeed! 
Dame of the British Empire, United Nation's Peace Messenger, and recipient of “Légion d’Honneur”, the highest decoration of France, Dr. Jane Goodall She started her career in 1960 at the age of 26 at Gombe National Park in Tanzania, interacting with chimpanzees and studying their behavior. More than 20 years ago, Dr. Goodall, now 78, gave up her career as a primatologist, as well as her private life, in order to devote her entire energy to saving the endangered planet. 
Jane’s Journey chronicles the life of this extra-ordinary woman, whose scientific breakthroughs are considered to be amongst the most important of the past 100 years. I have to admit that I was a little teary eyed  during the documentary. If you haven't watched it, it's high time you did! 
By the end of the movie, Dr. Goodall received a standing ovation from the crowd. As she stepped down from the aisle to address the crowd after the movie, the clapping wouldn’t stop.
“You’re just too great Jane,” yelled a young man from the audience.
More applause.
Dr. Goodall spoke to the audience and answered queries from young activists who shared their problems. For some it was difficult to change the attitude of skeptics of eco-tourism and some were fighting against the mockery that comes with animal rights activism in Nepal.
“It won’t happen overnight,” assured Dr. Goodall encouraging the crowd to never lose hope. 
Roots and Shoots is a global youth movement started by Dr. Goodall which is active in more than 120 countries. Manoj Gautam along with a group of dedicated members of Roots and Shoots Nepal are behind Dr. Goodall’s visit. All the proceeds of the movie event went to Roots and Shoots Nepal’s Vulture Conservation project in Nawalparasi. 
“Hopefully, we’re moving the young people in the right direction to do something,” said Dr. Goodall.
 Here is what she said when I asked her about  the youth of Nepal: 
“I think that when the young people of Nepal get to know the facts and are listened to and are told that what they do can make a difference and when they realize that that’s true, they are the same as young people I found all over the world. that the energy and level of commit of young people all over the world was amazing." 
Dr. Goodall is also the founder of the Jane Goodall Institute and has worked extensively on conservation and animal welfare issues. And after the movie, Dr. Goodall announced that a chapter of the Jane Goodall institute would be opening in Nepal too. 
Dr. Goodall, travels 300 days a year, spreading hope and inspiring millions. 
With her charm, her dedication and her undying hope in the younger generation, Dr Goodall is indeed one of the most fascinating women of recent times.

That's me with the Dr Goodall and Dr. H! What an honour!


Friday, 14 September 2012

Nepali Youth:Policy Makers!


Nepali Youth:  The Policy Makers
 The Nepali Youth is out on the streets. The youth of Nepal is burning tyres and shouting slogans. It is on Facebook pages, “liking” Miss Nepal Shristi Shrestha and contributing to the country’s growing cyber presence. It is creating events to support charities. The Youth of Nepal is undoubtedly the most effective tool to propagate social and political agendas. They are the force behind political parties to perpetuate violence. It is the Youth that bears the scars of  “latthi charges”.
But what is missing in youth participation is their involvement in the policy-making structure.  There is more to youth than just physical strength and impulsive ambitions. There is the power in the youth to work at a policy level if guided in the right way. It is the country’s responsibility to not only to use them a perpetrators of change. The youth needs to create the change they are a part of. There are reservations for women and other minorities in politics. Maybe it is time to create effective policies that invest similar provisions for the youth so that they can actively become a part of the policy-making sector.

They have to play an important role, not only in implementing decisions; they need to be mobilized to take those decisions themselves.

Becoming The Youth of Nepal:

There are three major parts that needs to be kept in mind, in case of youths and preparing them to be active in bringing about reforms. The first one involves preparing young adolescents for their roles as tomorrow’s youths. Making them look forward to becoming the change.  Encouraging them with incentives and inserting community building and social responsibility much more rigorously in the mainstream curriculum.  They need to be groomed into becoming resourceful and impactful. And this does not start at the onset of their 18th year. It should start as soon as they are old enough to understand that the power of tomorrow lies in their hands.
Nine and tenth graders are warned of the pending “iron gate” they have to pass in the next few years. A fifteen year old spends an entire year, locked up in a room rotting a science syllabus and the time he/she manages to come out of that room is usually instances where he is surrounded by relatives questioning him/her why are they not in that room.
That fifteen-year-old is missing out on community service on debates, on discussions. There is a dire need to chalk out a plan that balances the schoolwork and community work. Because their hard work  and participation, contributes to the greater good of the community. So why not start at the very beginning of this symbiotic cycle?

The bottom line is there needs to be platforms or 12, 13, 14, 15 year olds to make them realize that tomorrow the world is theirs, and they need to start by getting involved today.

The National Youth Policy 2010 mentions that it aims “To support individual and social development including education, employment and career of the youths who are in the course of imparting education and in the sensitive stage of establishing their identity in the society”
 Molding children from a young age and preparing them to become the youth of tomorrow is the first step in the game.  Establishing institutions where these children can learn of their opportunities and possibilities and shaping them to become critical thinkers of  the national building process and  making them into champions of reform should start from the very beginning of an individual’s learning graph. 
Another crucial factor in preparing young adults is connecting youths from different parts of the country. The urban iPhone Generation is as Nepali as the farmer’s kid in a remote village of Nepal.  One example:  Establishing a Pen-pal system in schools across the country. Making the pen-pal system a compulsory part of social studies, where a child from two different places in Nepal are allowed to connect. If such initiatives are inculcated into children from a very young age then we could be successful in fostering understanding and oneness between children from two different backgrounds, who share a similar culture and national identity.

Nepali Youth: The Policy-maker:
Second is youth participation in policy level. What this country needs is policy level intervention in ensuring that youths are not only agents of change, but also the change themselves.  The National Youth Policy (Nepal) 2010 states that:
 The State has to pursue a concrete policy in order to institutionalize federal democratic republic in consonance with the inclusive, proportional and equal development principles, to maintain national independence and sovereignty of Nepal, materialize the potentiality of youth leadership in the economic, social, political and cultural transformation and ensure the active participation of the youths in each and every process of state functionality. (2010)

Well- prepared youth can contribute effectually to the policy-making process.  And policy-makers are obliged to enable the youth to do so.  The government needs to set up watch-dogs to inquire and investigate to see if the objectives of the National Youth Policy 2010 are met or not.  For the National Youth Policy to recognize its goal, it should reflect on the feedback from the youth, and  employ the youths themselves to    follow the progress chart. 
    Inculcating youth leaders from different strata of the Nepalese society into contributing to policy-making, and teaming those youth leaders with counterparts who might not share their leadership quality, but have the intellect and are potential social experts, will churn into a valuable policy-making concoction indeed!   Not every body is a leader and not everybody is a policy-maker. But if teamed together they hold the power to identify the changes needed and mobilize fellow youths.  This pool of youth potential is the country’s strongest uphold. Including them as board members of corporation, electing them as direct members of various civil society organizations is a perfect chance to involve them in nation building. Putting youth leaders in the policy-making forefront sends a message to millions of youths across Nepal.   Creating examples, gives the young leaders of tomorrow some one to look up to. Bringing out young decision-makers to deliberate policies on youths will mark Nepal’s development and an overall positive change in attitude.  Most importantly, youth leaders should be trained and encouraged to mobilize the generation younger than them as well.If  political leaders, lawyers doctors  are mentors of the youth who want to follow their footsteps, then those youths should be mentors of  a younger generation, so that they can  derive inspiration and look forward to becoming  champions of Reform.  
           The World Movement for Democracy  (a global network of democrats, including activists, practitioners, academics, policy makers and funder) in its  “Youth in Policy Making” section in the website talks about projects and groups that promote youth involvement. It lists, “Some of the skills, taught on- and offline, include: organizing coalitions, running an issues-based campaign, writing effective letters to elected officials, and using the internet to engage in policy debates.” These activities if facilitated by the youths themselves who are involved in policy-making would be effective in creating concrete change at policy level.
Youth is not only a Youth:
      Take a hypothetical instance; we are making a policy to make the “environment cleaner.”  Here we have a 60-year-old professor who has more than 30 years of experience in the field.  And we have a 27-year-old post-graduate student, who also has a degree in environmental science from a (hypothetical) college in Norway. This 27-year-old was the president of the environment club in her university and successfully organized and designed campaigns in her university, which involved mobilizing each and every staff, old and young in making the camps cleaner.  How valuable would that team of 60-year-old expert and 27-year-old youth expert be in developing strategies to launch a nation-wide campaign to mobilize?
       Where experience of an expert meets the zeal of Newcomer, there blossoms a mentor and a student who can build dreams together, where the experience can leave behind the legacy, knowing the newcomer will carry the torch forward.
       Involving the youth in areas beyond youth issues is a way of letting them know that there are more responsibilities they have to take up.  One of the objectives of The National Youth Policy of Nepal 2010 reads, “To develop and expand the role and potentiality of the youths in the nation building and national development.”
         While involving the youth in policy-making, the government and non-government actors should mobilize the talent into using them to deliberate policies outside the youth. The Youth Factor of policy making should be implied on environment and climate change policies, on other social issues of concern, the unemployment scenario etc. In a nutshell, the youth of Nepal should not be limited to being youth; they need to be actively integrated into nation building as a whole.
          Let me insert a perfect example here: Youth Senate program by the International Foundation in cooperation with the Haitian Parliament, the Haitian Ministry of Education, the Parliament of Quebec, and Associates in Rural Development:

                      Students were selected though and essay competition to become youth senators who then spent several days in Port-au-Prince learning about policy making process in Haiti and participated in a mock parliament. They proposed and debated a number of laws, and passed laws mandating to increase environmental protection and improve.


      And, speaking about youth participation in environmental issues, here is a shout out to the Nepali Youth Task Force  which participated in the Rio +20 Summit.  The team   has been organizing different activities in rural and urban area. Their involvement in mobilizing the youth and participating in the summit is a perfect example of youth-power mobilized to participate in solution-discussion and utilization of their potential into mobilizing their generational counterparts.  There are many other instances of youth-led organizations in Nepal that are organizing interaction programs and discussion. There needs to be a state mechanism to hand pick such efforts, glorify their importance and effectively set examples for those who inspire to follow footsteps and even start a legacy of their own.
     Encouraging more and more activities that recognize the youth’s effort, motivates young entrepreneurs. Government should stet up incentives to felicitate youths who have become champions in various sectors of society, including business, online-activism, non-profit and sports.  Different types of talents should be used to encourage youths to actively participate and contribute in one way or the other. 
         Fostering youths to become champions of reform is like practicing for a tennis game. Both sides wont become perfect until this partnership is synchronized and there is an understanding between the two. The Nepali Youth has shown its potential and energy in Modern Nepal. Now it is up to the government and non-government actors to correctly utilize them, insert provision to allow the youth to become successful leaders of tomorrow and provide them a platform to   voice their concerns and offer solutions to the country’s problems.

    As post-conflict Nepal struggles to establish new policies and principles, the role of youth has become even more profound. The youth played an extremely important role in ushering in the revolutions that started the dawn of a New Nepal. As the country transitions into nation building, integrating the youth into making policies-both youth oriented and other issues is important. Youth feedback is important to establish effective policies. Stakeholders need to keep in mind two important thing while mobilizing the power of youth to make them champions of reform: Promoting adolescents and preparing them to become leaders of tomorrow and  innovating  youths in the policymaking structure. Listening to the youth and their solution to the problem, not only expecting the youth to  follow orders because, youth is the nation’s strongest army. 

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

What's on my Nightstand: Shiva Triology


Good Books, make my life happier. When I read a good piece of literature, I am a happy person and can't stop talking about it. It could get a tad bit annoying actually. For example: If I meet someone now, after a hello and what's up. I ask: Have you read about those Meluhans? 
As I adjust myself into the world of "no-more Harry Potter",  God (literally) decided to come to rescue and threw "Immortals of Meluha"  and "Secret of the Nagas", my way.
Verdict: Absolute Page Turners. Can't wait for the the last book of the Trilogy, which is scheduled for December 2012 release!  
There is so much of hindu literature and mythology in these books. And given my obsession with Mahabharat and Ramayan and other  ancient scriptures, I'd say It's  a perfect match.  It's stuff my grandma used to tell me about Shiva and Sati! And now I get to read it, from a completely fresh point of view. Splendid, I tell you!
I have always loved the aura of Mahadev. His Chillum and dreadlocks are trademarks of Hinduism's creative outlook at the perception of god. He's the rebel of the lot. A symbol of non conformity in the most Godliest form. It's an amazing plot, with beautifully crafted sequence of words!  The characters of Sati, Nandi are people we have always known. Their originality is retained,  yet Amish's own creative twists adds that element of surprise.
Immortals of Meluha is the first of the  Shiva Trilogy! 

Secret of the Nagas: 80,00 copies were pre-ordered! It sold 95k copies in a month! 
 Birdie has it that Karan Johar is making a movie of it!  Well if it's true then Kjo has a lot of homework to do. The mystical sets, the demanding characterization and the land of the Meluhans. Phew! It's a big task. And it's rumored that either Priyanka Chopra  or Vidya Balan will play Sati. Who do you think would be better? The first time she is  described in the book, I had a vivid image of Aishwarya Rai in Jodha Akbar's Fencing scene. However, I think he should go for a fresh pick!  Maybe launch a Sati Hunt? Now that would be interesting. But I guess the stakes are high and KJo would want to play safe with bankable actors.

What about the Mighty Mahadev? Who do you think could take up the role?